No Doubt life is a struggle....if we just successfully get over one problem another problem is knocking our door step...life is like this...there is no such day where we don't have new experiences...realizing now that in each and every step just make us to learn something new...sometime i just want to be relaxed and finding me at that time facing lots of difficulties to survive in this world...why situations are like this...and also after the problem got solved i just feel as if that is not at all problem ..that was just part of day to day life....
we came across lots of people in our life time and we just get closure to few of them and when we are just feeling that the person is not caring for us then lots of pain in our mind but later i feel as if it's his/her decision ...why i just want him/ her to decide in our favor ...Any ways now i came to know that life is a dream and better to forget /ignore all those silly things ...as life is only for few days in this beautiful earth ...when ever i just getting negative response from my near and dear one then i can get that he/she is not in a good mood and trying to show me his/her frustration....so that i can help him or her ...and i used to help as by helping i realize that he /she is more and more closure to me...how stupid i'm ....it took me so long to realize this fact ...
GOD knows i'm wrong or write ...ohhh lots of doubts in my mind ....:), but enjoying the journey of life...
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first of all, thank u so much for your wishes on my Bday :)
your write up is very thought provoking.. yes, we always want everyone to love us, sometimes it makes us demand too much and get hurt in the bargain....
thanks for support and enjoy your day :), yes just expressed myself ...and expressed my thoughts
I prefer to call these as challenges to life. No life can be free from them, and as we have a saying in our industry, every challenge has a 'lessons learnt'.
So, give the love you want to ... and don't expect anything in return. If everyone can follow this, then there will always be love. Expectations, they are part of our species.
Kick that doubt out of your head, and you will be peaceful. Wish you good times!! :)
thanks IdleMind :), yes "every challenge has a lesson"...these words i shared with my big boss few days ago.....as we were facing problem in our project ...
yes now i realized that expectation is the main cause of all the problem ....better to enjoy every moment of life without expecting :)
Swapna,
You bring out very nice perspectives about challenging day-to-day life. I face this many times. I wonder, is it only me or does everyone have to face these hardships in life? But this problem or should I say challenge is all pervasive and everyone goes through one challenge or the other. Sometimes a seemingly "lucky" person will have his/her own problems.
Roadblocks are in place everywhere. It is up to us if we wish to take a U-turn and go home, or find a way to get around them (which is better) or find a way to get over them (which is the best). It all depends on the personality and attitude. One with an attitude of a survivor/fighter will definitely find a way to get over the roadblock and move on.
LIfe is definitely a struggle, but then I feel what is life without a struggle.. Things which come easy are taken for granted.. People, Emotions, Desires, everything jsut comes and goes.. The only difference, some stays for long, some for a short duration.. But a learning comes out of everything..
I always belive, "Life is not easy, but is definitely beautiful.. Its how you treat it" :)
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